Contributors

Finding Time to Play

Jun 14th, 2013 | By
Finding Time to Play

I’ll admit: It’s hard to find time to play with Master. Master works all day, Monday through Friday. He’s also gone two evenings a week. Every other weekend, we have his kids at the apartment. That makes for a total of SIX people in a two bedroom apartment. Not exactly conducive to impact play, which
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Feminism in BDSM

Jun 12th, 2013 | By
Feminism in BDSM

In alternative cultures, such as the BDSM lifestyle, there are many overlapping strata and assumptions.  Go into any group and you will see different people with different attitudes and ways of dealing with people.  In many ways, BDSM is very hierarchical, with High Protocol keeping people within their place in the group.  It is also quite
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Advice: What do I tell a new vanilla partner about marks from play?

Jun 7th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss what you should say to a new vanilla partner about marks left from BDSM play. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: How do I consequence a submissive that has past trauma without causing more trauma?

Jun 5th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss strategies for providing consequences to a submissive that has had trauma in their past. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Book Reveiw: The Ultimate Guide to Kink, BDSM, Role play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taorminio

May 29th, 2013 | By

Greetings to my fellow kinksters.  My name is Synn Tryst and I will be bringing you reviews of not only non-fiction books but fiction as well with a BDSM or kink theme to them.  Being a writer and having a voracious reading habit,  I’ve always got a book in my hand, when the hands are
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Sexual Self-Expression

May 27th, 2013 | By
Sexual Self-Expression

There are many ways in which I have chosen to express myself throughout my life. Music and “artistic” sports such as figure skating and marching band color guard have long been my staples – so much so, that I’ve probably spent at least half of my life completely absorbed in them. Closely following those is
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What, you weren’t always you?

May 22nd, 2013 | By
What, you weren’t always you?

Within the Kink community, there are people who have very strong outward personae. You know who others are talking about just by a few well placed adjectives and a few vulgar verbs. There are expectations around them, and it is ‘known’ who they are. I found recently that I am one of them. Several pointed
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Advice: What happens when illness impacts a D/s relationship?

May 20th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss how illness can impact the dynamic of a D/s relationship. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com    



Advice: Is it Healthy to Enjoy Humiliation During Play?

May 15th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss a reader’s question about whether or not it is healthy to enjoy humiliation during play. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Hidden in Plain Sight

May 10th, 2013 | By
Hidden in Plain Sight

As I mentioned previously, I’m a collared slave. I wear my collar 24/7, and have no intention of removing it, except for medical reasons. I talked with my children about the collar ahead of time, having known that I would be receiving it when I visited in December of 2012. I didn’t call it a collar,
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