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Advice: What happens when illness impacts a D/s relationship?

May 20th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss how illness can impact the dynamic of a D/s relationship. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com    



Advice: Is it Healthy to Enjoy Humiliation During Play?

May 15th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss a reader’s question about whether or not it is healthy to enjoy humiliation during play. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: Am I a Bad Person If I Want To Spank or Hurt Someone?

Apr 22nd, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss concerns about feeling bad about desires to spank or otherwise hurt someone. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: How Do We Begin Opening Up Our Relationship?

Mar 18th, 2013 | By

In this video we answer a question about how to begin the process of opening up your relationship.   Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: How Do I Help My Partner Understand Why I Enjoy Submission?

Mar 1st, 2013 | By

In this video we answer a question about how to help a partner understand why you enjoy being submissive beyond sex.     Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: Pro Domme & When to bring up BDSM?

Feb 5th, 2013 | By

Welcome to our latest advice video for MadisonKink.com. Newbie wrote to ask, “How do I find a professional Domme?” Anonymous wrote to ask, “How do you bring up the topic of BDSM when you are in a new relationship?” Here is our reply – Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com Jay
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Advice: Age of Kinksters & Sex as Part of Kink

Jan 21st, 2013 | By

Welcome to our latest advice video for MadisonKink.com. Newbie wrote to ask, “Hi, we are in our late 50′s. Will there be others in our age group?” Anonymous wrote to ask, “Does kink play always involve sex?” Here is our reply –     Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins,
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Advice: Trauma, Abuse & Kink

Dec 17th, 2012 | By

We are introducing a new twist to our advice column. Jasmine St. John and I will now be answering your questions in a brief video. We’d love to hear your feedback about the new format!   Kat from Madison wrote to ask: Can you talk about the connection between past abuse and kink? Here is
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Advice: Relax or Game?

Dec 3rd, 2012 | By

I’ve been curious-before shades came out!  But, is that what it can be like?  To just relax and not feel like a slut because you ask for things that aren’t “conventional?”  Or, is it a game…..unsatisfying because your scared of what others think of you? Jay:  That’s an interesting question. I’m willing to bet that
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Answering your questions…

Nov 19th, 2012 | By
Answering your questions…

I’m pleased to announce that beginning today there will be a change to this column and that of Alt Sex Therapist. We will be answering questions submitted by you, the readers of MadisonKink.com.  We will be happy to answer questions about just about anything including BDSM & Kink, Power Dynamics, Relationship Issues, Personal Growth issues…you
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