The Invisible Domme exists so that I can write freely about my
experiences as a housewife, Pro-Domme and online fetish ‘camgirl’. I
use the term camgirl loosely because while I do use a webcam, my
sessions are more about my mind an intellect (and perhaps my smirk)
than what I’m wearing, how I look or the fact I’m even on cam at all.
I would have at one point included lifestyle too, but since my partner
is so very vanilla, that aspect of my life is in the past. Does it
work? Hell yes. Has it been tricky to settle into and find boundaries
that work for us both? Undoubtedly.
What you can expect from me is tales of how my life fits together. If
you have questions, you are welcome to ask them and I’ll do my best to
So, as The Invisible Domina, am I trying to protect my privacy? No,
not quite. I chose the pseudonym base on the fact that, to my family,
I am anything but. I am their daughter, friend, sister or
acquaintance. As people we are all trying to balance the many aspects
of our lives, and I hope that my column here represents the compromise
and balancing act I have to endure in my own life.
If you want to find out more about my working life, you can head over
to my site.