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Advice: Should I be worried about my friend?

A reader writes- Hi, I found out my friend has been in a D/s relationship for about a year now. She is the sub, but over the last month or so, things about the relationship seem to have changed. She suddenly cut off contact with her family and many of her friends. She left her husband and her
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Traveling to See Your Dom?

If you have to travel to see your Dominant, keep a few things in mind.  Your comfort, how you are traveling, and the people around
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Advice: Help! My Partner Wants Things That I May Not be Okay With.

In this video we discuss a reader’s question about how to handle a situation where his partner is interested in S&M and non-monogamy but the partner isn’t sure he will enjoy or even be okay with some or all of the activities. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine
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Miss R’s tips for a Profile

I have mentioned this before, and I will mention it again, but if you have a profile on a dating/kinky/any site, please do it right. Right can be subjective, but if you follow these tips, you just may get the attention you are looking for. Pictures set the tone. People don’t read your profile, then
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Buying a Corset.

Some people seem to have the perfect fetish wardrobe.  They go to parties and gatherings and have the polish of a 50’s pin-up or the
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Here’s an Idea: Be Vanilla

A lot of people ask “how can I be more kinky” or “what can I do to be kinky?” or “What does my kinky lover
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Aiden’s Kinky Christmas Playlist

Holiday music really isn’t usually what I think of when I’m getting a playlist ready for a scene.  Something about the pleasant ring of sleigh
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Soft BDSM: Chastity

There’s an on-going debate in kink as to weather BDSM is about sex or not.   One one side are those who say “duh! Of course
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Bondage Furniture: Not What You Think

One of the most common search terms that brings people to MadisonKink is “BDSM Ideas”.  And a common question within that search deals with “apartment kink”–what can you do to create bondage furniture or other BDSM installations in an apartment.  We’ve talked about this breifly before. This time, we’ll get a little more specific. The
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Kinky Dollar Store Toys

I have to admit that I have a strange sense of what is appropriate to a kink scene.  I am not one to go with too many of the stereotypes, but try to use the surroundings, people and items I have on hand. Being a Pro-Dom, I have to be aware and cautious about reusing
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