Posts Tagged ‘ Advice ’

Advice: Is it Healthy to Enjoy Humiliation During Play?

May 15th, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss a reader’s question about whether or not it is healthy to enjoy humiliation during play. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: Am I a Bad Person If I Want To Spank or Hurt Someone?

Apr 22nd, 2013 | By

In this video we discuss concerns about feeling bad about desires to spank or otherwise hurt someone. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: How Do We Begin Opening Up Our Relationship?

Mar 18th, 2013 | By

In this video we answer a question about how to begin the process of opening up your relationship.   Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Advice: How Do I Help My Partner Understand Why I Enjoy Submission?

Mar 1st, 2013 | By

In this video we answer a question about how to help a partner understand why you enjoy being submissive beyond sex.     Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT www.AwenTherapy.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com



Renaming a bdsm gathering: What to say when talking to friends and family.

Feb 27th, 2013 | By
Renaming a bdsm gathering: What to say when talking to friends and family.

Ever been in the position where you have to edit yourself while speaking? It can come across as stilted, and obviously embarrassed. You should not be embarrassed about what you like to do, but some people just really don’t understand.  This changes how many people interact with others, especially friends and family who do not
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Being Safe and Kinky

Feb 25th, 2013 | By
Being Safe and Kinky

I’m a newbie to kink, but I’ve had many experiences even before my foray into the kink world that have helped to shape me into the person I am today. Those experiences, and some experiences I’ve had as a kinkster have also taught me valuable lessons about self-respect and safety. Before I go any further,
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How Do I Tell My Doctor I’m Kinky? Part 3

Feb 11th, 2013 | By
How Do I Tell My Doctor I’m Kinky?  Part 3

[Editor's Note:  Part 1 and Part 2] The third and final situation we’ll discuss is when you have a health question related to a specific kink activity.  This would likely be a problem focused visit with your personal physician.  Understand that the appointment clerk at your physician’s office is responsible for managing the schedule and
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Advice: Pro Domme & When to bring up BDSM?

Feb 5th, 2013 | By

Welcome to our latest advice video for MadisonKink.com. Newbie wrote to ask, “How do I find a professional Domme?” Anonymous wrote to ask, “How do you bring up the topic of BDSM when you are in a new relationship?” Here is our reply – Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jasmine St. John, LMFT www.JSJTherapy.com Jay
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Advice: Age of Kinksters & Sex as Part of Kink

Jan 21st, 2013 | By

Welcome to our latest advice video for MadisonKink.com. Newbie wrote to ask, “Hi, we are in our late 50′s. Will there be others in our age group?” Anonymous wrote to ask, “Does kink play always involve sex?” Here is our reply –     Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins,
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How Do I Tell My Doctor I’m Kinky? Part 2

Jan 14th, 2013 | By
How Do I Tell My Doctor I’m Kinky? Part 2

Last month, we talked about meeting a new doctor and talking to them about being kinky. The second situation we’ll discuss is when you are seeking care for a specific concern.  This might be a problem focused visit with your regular physician, or a visit to the emergency room or urgent care center, or a
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