I love Halloween.  It’s like a nationally recognized role play day, coupled with an excuse to eat so much chocolate that you have no choice but to strip, or risk tearing your costume at the stomach.  But Halloween is also a great time for all the curious grown-up boys and girls to experiment with cross
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I am in the final throes of packing for my trip.  And I just realized that I have to pack for two completely different types of gatherings. The first is in a hotel.  Convention space with air conditioned meeting rooms and bathrooms and a place to go back to that has a bed and it’s
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Your first trip to a BDSM dungeon play party can be stressful.  Once you make the decision to go from fantasy to reality there is a lot of anticipation and so little information on what to expect. The first time I went to a play party it was actually a private affair at someone’s house. 
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Imagine you are in 85f heat. You are choosing an outfit to wear. The world is fully accepting of fetish clothing. Your options are PVC, latex, leather… or black linen trousers and a sleeveless lightweight black cotton shirt. Personally, I’d opt for the latter any day. As much as the former items look absolutely awesome,
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Starting off can be exhilarating.  There are so many new things to try that trying to pick just one is a task in and of itself.  Even attending events can be a lot to take in; everyone seems to have their own little specialty and niche, and oh the outfits!  At the vanilla-friendly events, it
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There is nothing I appreciate more to see then a beautiful line of cleavage. It doesn’t matter how big a woman’s breasts are, or how much is exposed; just a nice elegant sampling, framed by a V-cut blouse or propped up by a corset can be enticing. Let’s admit it; boobies are wonderful. But if
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I am going to start this out with a definition of Fetish/Kinky clothing: Anything that makes you feel sexy. The lace and vinyl and leather are good, but anything that can help you project what you want others to see about you can work. There is the Dom who wears nothing but black leather, but what if you like pink and are vegan? There are pieces out there you can bring into your wardrobe to start kinking it up.