As I mentioned previously, I’m a collared slave. I wear my collar 24/7, and have no intention of removing it, except for medical reasons. I talked with my children about the collar ahead of time, having known that I would be receiving it when I visited in December of 2012. I didn’t call it a collar,
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For those of us who are into the stronger, heavier parts of BDSM, including military play, having handcuffs and leg irons in the toy bag is not just for show. We use them to restrain, we use them to intimidate, we use them to bring a scene together where a rope or leather manacle just
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My first Christmas with a BDSM partner is just around the corner, and I can’t help but wonder what to expect. I’m guessing that some of the presents under our tree contain some things that would raise eyebrows if brought to one of our family holiday gatherings by mistake. But with a lack of available
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Through my limited experiences I have countlessly discovered one simple truth that never fails surrounding the world of BDSM… Cats are kinky. They are loyal, loving, silly, spunky, little balls of fluff and we love them dearly but they have no concept of the rule that you aren’t, under any circumstance (unless its an emergency), supposed
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Not all of us are lucky enough to share our home with a kinky housemate. Many of us have vanilla housemates, or even partners in my case. In the kink community we talk so much about limits for our play, but something that we often forget is the limits of those with whom we share
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Strap-ons. Yup, strap-ons. You’ve been thinking of them. You’ve been wearing them out to kink parties. You may even have gotten brave and joined the thousands and thousands of people out there using this kinky, but almost vanilla-by-popularity, sex toy. Maybe you are having it used on you. Strap-ons have been around for ages, and
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I am in the final throes of packing for my trip. And I just realized that I have to pack for two completely different types of gatherings. The first is in a hotel. Convention space with air conditioned meeting rooms and bathrooms and a place to go back to that has a bed and it’s
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One of the most common search terms that brings people to MadisonKink is “BDSM Ideas”. And a common question within that search deals with “apartment kink”–what can you do to create bondage furniture or other BDSM installations in an apartment. We’ve talked about this breifly before. This time, we’ll get a little more specific. The
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I hear you say, “What the heck does that mean?” Sit down and I will explain. When you talk to people who are in the business world, you may come across this phrase. On Travel is a concise way of saying, “I am going to be traveling on business and will not be at my
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I am a technophile. I love technology. To the point that I have a selection of apps on my phone that help me in my kink endevours. I hope you find these, and others useful. For those of you who are looking into Shibari, Knots is a nice, and free, app to put into your
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