I went to an anime convention recently (yes, feel free to roll your eyes and judge accordingly) and had a wonderful time. There were so many people there who were so dedicated to dressing up in character and being someone they truly enjoyed. It was a moment in time where they could be around others
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Finding a community of like minded people is so very refreshing! Finally, there are people who also tied up their barbies, and GI-Joe was always the big bad Dom/Rapist/Abductor. You can talk to people about kink! But wait…..where to start? I met my first kinky boyfriend when I was in my 20′s…some 20 odd years
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My Fiance and I have been together for 8 years now, we are to get married next year. We have a great relationship together as friends and a couple. We have always dabbled in the light bondage but both of us had some reservations on how far to take it, or even what we really
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I decided I needed to read Fifty Shades of Grey by E. L. James to see what all of the hoopla was about. Reportedly this is a NY Times bestseller about BDSM. The reviews I had read were pretty mixed. But I was shocked to see numerous Facebook proclamations by some of the most buttoned
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I’ve been shaving my head for around 15 years now. For me it’s not a fetish, it’s just giving in to reality. Nature has already removed half of my former mane, I’m just evening it out. It wasn’t until recently that I realized that head shaving is a fetish. I mean… I’d known it was,
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For many people who identify as gay, lesbian, queer or so on, when they were first discovering their sexuality there was a lot of doubt. Even though society is getting better by the year about recognizing and supporting LGBTQA individuals, no one “wants” to be gay and potentially face the prejudice and bullying that goes
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One of the greatest things about rope is its flexibility. It can inspire a sensual scene of intense connection or a rough and tumble scene of brutality. This flexibility makes actually writing a usable introduction difficult. I could take you through tying a square knot but that is something you can learn from many places
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Imagine you are in 85f heat. You are choosing an outfit to wear. The world is fully accepting of fetish clothing. Your options are PVC, latex, leather… or black linen trousers and a sleeveless lightweight black cotton shirt. Personally, I’d opt for the latter any day. As much as the former items look absolutely awesome,
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If you have gone to any local or regional kink-oriented gatherings over the last five years, you probably have seen him. Either sporting his spiked ball-cap with the word “SIR” on it while beating on someone, or in his equestrian tack as “Sir Biscuit”. Ravenous jumped into the local scene at the first Sabbat de
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We often talk about “discipline” in BDSM, but what is it we’re really talking about? Without even bringing in the BDSM aspects, the word has a lot of definitions. While a couple of them are outside the scope of kink, most of them are appropriate–as well as completely different. In BDSM, even more so
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