The fourth annual Walk A Mile Madison is happening on Saturday, May 4th.  Walk a Mile Madison is part of the international Walk a Mile in
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[Editor's Note:  Part 1 and Part 2] The third and final situation we’ll discuss is when you have a health question related to a specific kink activity.  This would likely be a problem focused visit with your personal physician.  Understand that the appointment clerk at your physician’s office is responsible for managing the schedule and
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Is your “smart phone” telling more about you than you realize?  I would like to offer a couple of suggestions to keep the being exposed (keep your digital skirt from being blowing up in your face – think Marilyn Monroe). If you are like myself, your phone is your life.  If you keep your schedule,
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I have just come from two weeks on the road.  It was good and bad and I would not have missed the experience.  I do have three things to share with you for “compare and contrast” between a Hotel Convention and a Camping Festival. 1-Conventions are indoors.  Hotels and convention sites have air conditioning, which
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As this is our ‘freshman edition’ I thought I’d speak to one of my oldest friends, who is also my foot slave. In recent months he has been exploring other aspects of his kinky persona, in the form of dominating women (anyone other than me…) Two weeks ago, he finally took the plunge with his
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Your first trip to a BDSM dungeon play party can be stressful.  Once you make the decision to go from fantasy to reality there is a lot of anticipation and so little information on what to expect. The first time I went to a play party it was actually a private affair at someone’s house. 
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Last month, I talked about the human need for fear, where it comes from and why we still have it.  This month, I’ll talk a little bit about the result.  Next month, I’ll discuss the answers. Getting Specific The human need for fear pervades every aspect of our world–ever culture, every country, every context.  MadisonKink,
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One of the greatest things about rope is its flexibility. It can inspire a sensual scene of intense connection or a rough and tumble scene of brutality. This flexibility makes actually writing a usable introduction difficult. I could take you through tying a square knot but that is something you can learn from many places
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The world is full of stories and injunctions warning us against the dangers of an array of activities too vast to catalog. Why? Because we need something to fear. Humans are a pack animal that evolved their social nature (partly) as a protective mechanism. One human couldn’t stand up to the predators, but a pack
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Sub space This is a term that people in the Kink lifestyle use, often.  It is one of the only terms that has been consistently used with the same definition for over 20 years that I know of. Just like with runners or other endurance exercisers, there can be a place that your mind drops
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