As I mentioned previously, I’m a collared slave. I wear my collar 24/7, and have no intention of removing it, except for medical reasons. I talked with my children about the collar ahead of time, having known that I would be receiving it when I visited in December of 2012. I didn’t call it a collar,
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Over half a year ago, during a discussion about the post “Hiding in Plain Sight“, someone brought up the following as a reason to keep kink events hidden: There is also, I think, a quite legitimate desire to not have to deal with “tourists” – and if the BDSM/Kink community wants a idea of what
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The fourth annual Walk A Mile Madison is happening on Saturday, May 4th. Walk a Mile Madison is part of the international Walk a Mile in
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To look at our family, we’d look just like any other blended family. My partner has two kids, ages 3 and 5, and I have two kids, ages 12 and 17. My kids live with us full time, while his are over on the weekends. The kids love playing with each other, and everyone gets
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One of the tricky things about living as a kinkster is how to navigate the vanilla world and its accompanying social mores. I have always been one of those nail-biting “oh, what will they think of me?” people. I wanted to be in the “popular” clique in school; I always wanted my immediate family to
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What a fast way to instantly change how we look. But how to pick a really good wig? How often do you plan to wear it? Just one night for a costume? Daily? A few times a year? Daily- I suggest investing in a human hair wig. These are easiest to care for. They are
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A lot of people ask “how can I be more kinky” or “what can I do to be kinky?” or “What does my kinky lover want?” Very few people ask “how can I be more vanilla?” Perhaps they should. In all the attempts to find answers on how to have a kinky relationship, too many
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I went to an anime convention recently (yes, feel free to roll your eyes and judge accordingly) and had a wonderful time. There were so many people there who were so dedicated to dressing up in character and being someone they truly enjoyed. It was a moment in time where they could be around others
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Now that winter has come, at least as far as the calendar is concerned, the winter festivals and celebrations are coming fast. Scheduling the play time and the family time can be a bit of a hassle and conflict. There are many groups that have monthly meetings, December is one of those months where it
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Is your “smart phone” telling more about you than you realize? I would like to offer a couple of suggestions to keep the being exposed (keep your digital skirt from being blowing up in your face – think Marilyn Monroe). If you are like myself, your phone is your life. If you keep your schedule,
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